Before a wedding
Many Gujarati and North Indian families hold Grah Shanti — a Navagraha puja — in the days before a wedding, at the bride’s and the groom’s homes, as part of the traditional preparation.
Devotion to the nine grahas
A traditional sequence of mantra, offering and, where observed, sacred fire — offered to the nine planetary deities as an act of devotion, not an astrological reading or a promise of results.
Quick answer
A Vedic prayer to the nine planetary deities, performed in a traditional sequence with mantras, and often with a havan — offerings made into the sacred fire — where a family observes one. It is a devotional observance rather than a promise of any outcome.
Most often as Grah Shanti before a wedding, sometimes within a Griha Pravesh or a new beginning, and sometimes simply as a practice their elders kept. It is an act of humility at a threshold, not a remedy.
Navagraha means “nine grahas”. In the Vedic tradition the grahas are the celestial influences that Hindu thought has long held in reverence, and each is honoured as a deity in its own right. The puja offers prayer to all nine in turn, in a set order, with a mantra, an offering and — where a havan is held — an oblation into the fire for each.
Shastri Ji performs the puja for its traditional spiritual purpose and explains the meaning of each invocation as it happens. He does not offer horoscope readings, predictions or astrological advice, and nothing about the ceremony is presented as a guarantee of health, wealth or fortune.
Why it is held
Three common occasions. Which applies, and whether a havan is included, follows the tradition your own family keeps.
Many Gujarati and North Indian families hold Grah Shanti — a Navagraha puja — in the days before a wedding, at the bride’s and the groom’s homes, as part of the traditional preparation.
Families sometimes include Navagraha prayers within a Griha Pravesh, a business opening or the start of a significant undertaking, as an act of humility at a threshold.
Some households hold it as a standalone puja, on a date chosen with the priest, simply as a devotional practice their elders kept and they wish to continue.
The sequence
Offered as guidance rather than a fixed order of service. The sequence and emphasis follow the tradition your own family keeps.
The intention is stated at the beginning, naming the family and the purpose for which the prayers are being offered.
Prayer to Lord Ganesha and the placing of the kalash, so the puja begins in the traditional order.
The nine grahas are established — traditionally with nine grains or coloured cloths on a board — and each is invoked and offered prayer in sequence, with the meaning explained as it happens.
Where a family observes it, offerings are made into the sacred fire with the mantra of each graha. Whether a live flame is possible depends on the venue.
The prayers close with aarti and the distribution of prasad to those present.
Practicalities
A cleared floor area with a low table for the kalash and the graha board, seating for elders, and the items on the list you are given. The samagri can be arranged for you or sourced from an itemised list; costs are discussed once the ceremony requirements and location are understood.
That is the venue’s decision. Many homes can accommodate a small, contained havan with ventilation; hired halls and flats often cannot. If a live flame is not permitted, you are told plainly beforehand and the puja is held without the havan rather than promised and abandoned on the day.
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